Tackle it Tuesday

Tackle it Today I did!

After the early morning dentist appointment for Dash where...we were going in to have his molars sealed...we walked out with a silver crown...I was started when they led us back to the closed room for they only do procedures there but Dash being special needs and they knowing that did not think a lot of it until I looked over at the set up complete with injection...????/
Some misunderstanding...yes
So after clarifying it all decided to go with the flow. The baby tooth was going to stay until he is 10-12 we were awaiting news if the orthodontist would be pulling it or not for braces. Well it was his partner who had set up for us to come back and have the full scan x ray and the sealants. All else had not been set up or agreed too. And here I was dear in the headlights! So I listened to the calm within me only concerned of the possible betrayal that Dash might feel.
That dentist gave Dash shots and Dash did NOT EVEN KNOW IT!!!!!!!!!!!
It could not of really worked out any better!

At the end the front office a buzz with the dread and concern of an angry mom were startled to find that I was not angry with them. They were so relieved and approached with a
"well just have you pay for the nytrisoxside (laughing gas) and not bill you for the rest of the balance until after insurance covers it."
Dash was not angry with me either.
Gods way is higher than us. ?

Dash was calm and the procedure went off without a hitch.
Dove waited out front! She was calm and alright.
The front office was impressed with her.

Well on the way out they were a little upset and wanted for a treat a Mc Donalds...well I had two bucks in my purse and had to deposit a check for a necklace I had made ...I told them that I would get them a doughnut when I went to the bank (it was in the grocery store).
At the bank when I approached he was stunned to my reply when asked "how are you today"
My reply "happy"
Startled the teller ask "Well tell me what makes you so happy this morning that your this way?...."
So I told him and then change the slip to get a $5 cash back to get the kids doughnuts. He said to me..."your kids want a dough nut?...well we have way more of them than we could ever eat hold on..."
He came back with a plate for each kid and a Doughnut bigger than Dash's head! Dove chose the one with sprinkles.:)

We finished our transaction and he then paused me and asked me...
"would you like a dough nut too?"
Sheepishly I grinned and accepted my favorite maple glazed.
Dove wished for another for hers was small and was up set a little cuz Dash had a massive one. I gave Dove mine and she was so excited and thankful...

We then left to go get some free MULCH...saw it on craigslist
the elder came out and told me of how he needed some and had way too much delivered. He told me of how he had hoped to cover the area around the mound a few inches thick to stop the weeds. I filled the bed of the truck and the kids were in the running truck with the A/C on. Then I decided two shovels for the old mans area one shovel to the truck bed and covered his front. He came out to leave in his car....It was then I saw the handicap tag...

He told me "You don't have to do that"

I told him

"I do not do it because I have to, I choose too"
... and thanked him for the mulch.

We then drove up to a town north of us to get several bags of horse manure for free curb side. All bagged :) the bed of the truck is full and I am now beginning to cool.

I am just all tackled out!

It is 1:00 p.m.
time to chill and rest before supper preparations.

Marriage Monday

Marriage Monday- Open Topic
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Marriage Plan

Recently I have been studying the seven habits of effective people and considering a life plan.

This made me think

What is my Marriage Plan?

Living intentionally what is it that I want the epitaph (only through a physical death) of my marriage to say?

That last day I live here with him. That day when all he might have of me is a memory?

Oh this is not to me morose Oh No but to intentionally consider what it is I wish for this life to be from a far reaching future tense. So that I might implement actions where any neglect might existent.

Now this is to consider for every role of my life but here I am focused on my marriage to Steve our history yet to be created...

These things so far I have pondered.

*That there would continue never ever be a doubt within him of my Love and devotion to our unity deeper than a friendship. Of my unconditional love, all effort to understand and walk knowledgeably into wisdom as his help in this life.

*To NEVER do him harm or evil all the days of my life.To co-parent with wisdom and courage. By being prudent and wise in our funds, relationships, and roles. To make a priority of self care.

*I desire to support him in our interdependence to become the all of who we are created to become. In word and in action speaking life and uplifting him in doing what is right and honorable.

* To be HIS Beauty to come to and to think of and dwell on in the harshness of this present day world reality. By taking better care of my physical health do what I am able to do as not to add worry or fear of the future to his days. A hiding place and a fortress to look forward to coming home to. When he thinks of a woman that My image in his mind (both spiritual, mental and physical) cause his heart to race.

To pursue wholeness of my being in all aspects.

The Simple Woman's Daybook

For Today... Monday, August 3, 2009

Outside My Window...It is HOT, The yard is calling for the morning next to come that I might continue to nurture it.

I am thinking... I will miss that little race car, battle guy and buzz of the sweet little boy who never stops.

From the learning rooms…The seven habits of effective people, Life Plan Study, Affiliation study for the kids. Some Family way time with the children. Flash card review daily.

I am thankful ... The possibility of travel! Stunned !!!We have been offered the chance to go to DC and stay in a guest apartment in my nieces complex. Take the kids to the museums for free! Visit the battle grounds and such. We have just been given a lot of overtime. We have also received a part time employ that will be done at home.
We are prayerfully considering doing such a thing. We do not want to be over zealous and jump the gun on our goals. What I think I am most thankful about is is that my husbands eyes are bright with anticipation for this is something he so desired to do.
With Dove in the 5th grade it would be perfect timing this fall to do so, We would really have to keep up the diligence and hard work to afford to do it and yet keep to goal.

From the kitchen...Clean counters and a box of pears. Bread to make later today. Salad to be had for lunch. Very few dishes to do. My husband caught us up and so I can relax a bit.

I am wearing...A summer gauze dress it is black and earth tones of browns and vague blues it is very cool and comfortable

I am reading... The book Eldala by my dear friend Michelle Gregory

I am hoping...To equip Dove for her school year . There are so many dysfunctional little girls who have already begun to call and stage themselves in a pecking order that clearly shows how un affiliated they are, even in their own homes. It is a real stressful thing for my dear daughter.

I am creating... My fall/winter garden making the earth and tending it to be planted within two weeks.

I am hearing...Shirley Temple's Good ship lollipop Dove is watching in the other room and the hum of my son as he is playing throughout the house with his cars and guys.

I am going... To mail two letters...need to go to the bank and to the pediatric dentist to get Dash's permanent teeth sealed and a full panorama x ray of his mouth to watch for the process and see when the timing for braces will occur. We had good news NO PERMANENT Teeth will have to be removed. YA!

Around the house... Laundry to hang. Floors to sweep and a study center in the living room to create this week. A place where the kids will do homework and art.

One of my favorite things... Gecko's climbing on the walls. When gardening this morning I must of disturbed a family of them. At least 10 of them and plane lizard too.
I love seeing them flourish in the garden. They were FAT too. Wow did I make their day stirring up all that compost.

A Few Plans for the Rest of the Week: Lots of time with the kids, Meals and bake goods. Setting to task a LIFE PLAN...covering all of my different roles. Sewing some pants for Dash and cloths for me.

Here is a picture thought I am sharing…

My gazebo entry is so nice.
I am so looking forward to the nasturtiums growing on the gazebo and fence.

Time to walk away 3 hour work out this morning!
See Bee Bliss Gardens For the Details.
(later today I want to go play with my son)

The Gazebo part 2

How fun it is to play
As we were unloading the gazebo we made the children shut off the TV and come out to play.
The sun was setting and the afternoon temperatures were fair.

Even the Lab played with his ball.
Nothing like a family together in there own yard.

Now the jailer captured her prisoner in the garden extension.
He tried to find a hiding place the jailer protected me.
She captured him and drug him off to jail!

He paid his fines and was released
We stopped after dark to finish another day.
It is our staycation this week end so we rest.
More images posted over at Bee Bliss Gardens

The Gazebo part 1

I am pretty sure this is the gazebo

If it is we may be able to get a new cover

stock image

shows the finials
they are the SAME!!as the fence He provided for the garden extension.
It might need a bit of spray paint and a little repair for a piece was broken off when Steve dismantled it.

I did not attend my American Sewing Guild Meeting.
I was sent to another meeting.
We had just a lovely morning save the heat on my darling.
Everyone helped.
Jeriann her Husband and her BIL offered helped to Steve and I .
What a lovely hostess offering cold water
and a few grains for the kids to feed her free roaming chickens
as they sat on the grass in the shade.
The cutest little bante rooster too.

Gazebo Gift

In the shade
by Donetta

Beautiful Cupola
Commands a wide view
Look into me and I you
Admitting light
Air we breath

Fear we flee
Drew near you to me
Souls quenched

Common ground
Covering with it's delicacy
Crowns the arbor of infinity
Unity flows from the cup
Vaults the assembly
Approach choose the right
At peace
How bright is your light?

Belfry of iconic value
Rung to set the time
Query for souls
Not the campanile who stands alone
Unattached from others
They totter as leaning Towers
Life amplified sounded through
His divine expanse.

Cathedral frees captivity
As children rest in shade
Tender hearts
Openly share
Life all around
Walks soften in her form
Tender faced
I gazed at you

Listening ears with hungry heart
Removed yourself
To gain
Truth spoken
Oh Summerhouse that welcomed me
Your freestanding open generosity

Uprights hold the towers form
Though tarpon frayed and weather worn.

So came near to me this earthen form
Like me a little weather worn
We reaped the life so tenderly
We heard... bells did tole
For strangers once upon this land
Now called from every corner
Come join the congratulations choir
Sing under gazebo shade.

So quenched a soul
Who found another
To speak of all this wonder
I thank you
Delighted in the moment
Our paths did cross
Upon this earth

For all we give for all we are worth
What is it then but to love another
It is they who become a sister or a brother.

There are times in our lives when asked of us is something we most love to give. Today quipt= (quipt (via) Extremely clever idea) a gift of words...Things are not important it is hearts that matter...


ga·ze·bo (g-zb, -z-)

n. pl. ga·ze·bos or ga·ze·boes

1. A freestanding, roofed, usually open-sided structure providing a shady resting place.

2. A belvedere.

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gazebo [gaz-zee-boh]

Noun

pl -bos a summerhouse or pavilion with a good view [perhaps a pseudo-Latin coinage based on gaze]

Word: Gazebo

Definition: A freestanding roofed structure usually open on the sides.

Open structure, supported by columns and covered with a column-supported roof.

A freestanding, roofed, usually open-sided structure which provides a shady resting place. Usually square, hexagonal or octagonal shaped. If on the roof of a house, it is called a belvedere.

bel·ve·dere

Pronunciation:

\ˈbel-və-ˌdir\

Function:

noun

Etymology:

Italian, literally, beautiful view

Date:

1593

: a structure (as a cupola or a summerhouse) designed to command a view

bel·ve·dere (blv-dîr)

n.

A roofed structure, especially a small pavilion or tower on top of a building, situated so as to command a wide view.

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[Italian : bel, bello, beautiful (from Latin bellus; see deu-² in Indo-European roots) + vedere, to see, view (from Latin vidre, to see; see weid- in Indo-European roots).]

For other uses, see Cupola (disambiguation).

The open cupola of Faneuil Hall (built c. 1742) in Boston, Massachusetts

In architecture, a cupola is a small, most-often dome-like structure, on top of a building.^[1] Often used to provide a lookout or to admit light and air, it usually crowns a larger roof or dome.^[2][3] The word derives, via Italian, from the lower Latin cupula (classical Latin cupella from the Greek kypellon) small cup (lat. cupa) indicating a vault resembling an upside down cup.^[4] Cupolas often appear as small buildings in their own right. They often serve as a belfry, lantern, or belvedere above a main roof. In other cases they may crown a tower, spire, or turret.^[3] The chhatri, seen in Indian architecture, fits the definition of a cupola when it is used atop a larger structure.

Bell tower

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For other uses, see Bell tower (disambiguation).

A bell tower (also belfry) is a tower which contains one or more bells, or which is designed to hold bells, even if it has none. In the European tradition, such a tower most commonly serves as part of a church and contains church bells. When attached to a city hall or other civic building, especially in continental Europe, it is often named "belfry". Elsewhere, the term "belfry" refers strictly to the part of the tower which contains the bells. Thus some bell towers have no belfry. The occasional free standing bell tower may also be referred to by its Italian name, campanile. Old bell towers may be kept for their historic or iconic value, though in countries with a strong campanological tradition they often continue to serve their original purposes as well.

Bell towers are common in China and countries of the related cultures, where they may appear both as part of a temple complex and as an independent civic building.

A new friend

Welcome Jeriann
It was a pleasure to share hearts and minds last night on the phone. Those answers to your questions of my journey can be found on the side bar. A Life Restored...There are also some lovely Ladies and Gentlemen on the side bar the links are hot just click on them. Like you and I our hearts have touched each others lives too.

Folks this sweet Lady and I met last night through Craigs List, her generous heart... we will be going in the morning to get a gazebo for the garden a free gift. Life is rich this way...the hearts that we contact. I love what this wonderful soul said to me tonight.

Hearts matter more than things. Oh yes a resounding yes! That gazebo was just Gods way of bringing two folks together to share the beauty of life. I have a new friend! Who has a beautiful soul. We spoke for an hour and a half! Just met too.
It was so much fun to speak of those things holy.

Happy Friday!

Good Day to everyone.
It has been a day of sewing for me.
The blouse is finished. My Man took the day off today and we are all just taking it easy. The popular term is a "staycation".
He has too many accumulated vacation hours. So he worked a 14 hour day yesterday and stayed home today.

We did our large bulk shopping our bread flour, pastry flour, whole grain wheat to grind. We also got bulk sugar and such. Lots of fresh produce.
It was so wonderful not to really have to lift anything. We have those large food buckets I purchased when we got the water tank some time back and I have been awaiting this day some time. I am talking about 25 and 50 pound bags of these staples to set pantry for all the bake goods. Now remember I bake every thing from scratch, make my own mixes for convince.
So do you see some posts on this ahead???????
This afternoon while sewing great pleasure is being found in listening to a book on tape called

The 7 habits of highly successful people.
a very good book!

MUST READ OR AUDIO BOOK it.

We took a nice ride out to the farm lands early this morning chasing the free stuff listed on Craig's List....it was gone when we got there but the kids got to say hello to a horse. It was nice to get out together.
We are just chilling out.

My Mr U. Got a job offer part time at home in the office with his children and his wife at home :)!
...with this fellow I spoke of that is going to help a lot!

YA!
Answered prayer!

In addition he is now having the opportunity for overtime at his regular employment.

YA!
again thank you for your prayers.

It is a gift that we have tasted a
very little bit
of the great suffering that is going on around us in this economy.
Many of you , many all over have and are really suffering.
Commpassion is intensified in the struggles of so many.

I love that our little family is given this chance to gain humility and to understand and to respect the resorces that we are so very privlidge to have.
The kids have gained so much understanding
I JUST LOVE THAT.

It is however a thrill to have the pantry grains stocked and we are still going to act as if we do not have this bit of extra so that we do not squander it.

The kids have all they need for school for now.
We want for nothing.

God is so good!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was talking with Him about how good He is just because he loves us and not just because of all we "GET".

In want or in need he is good simply because He has loved me and holds my heart so tenderly. He pursues me and desired my presence. We all need to be needed and He does need us...He needs to be loved too.

Thankful Thursday

Summer time is the theme for the day...
Join us over here


How good it is to be loved the balance is a marvelous thing.

Now even though I got a very healthy stress relieving belly laugh out of the comment my Sister made about it being illegal to work folk so hard as I do...
I got her point.

I know she is right in some respects the health issues and the stress of such a heavy load is life (literally) consuming.
However it is also life giving.
If I do not keep a full life I will not be doing as well as I am at maintaining my mental stamina. Yet it is a bit over the top, with a sick husband it has fallen for me to carry his load a little more in the yoke.

I was telling her how I had totally forgotten that I had gone through all that testing sometime back and had proven out that the issues with my brain matter was not early onset dementia. It was NOT.
Kids I forgot that I even had that testing!
I got so full of fear about the Altimeters threat that I just crumbled.
These lesions and migraines in the white matter like to play silly tricks on me.
It was when I was in prayer that God showed me doing all those tests and the Doctor saying that I was so very highly intelligent and really making such a point of it. I saw in the memory of it her face.

Now what ever the little dance is that the demilenation/brain injury is causing well that is something I live with.

Every day is new.
HA!
Well sometimes that "ha"
turns to tears, heart ache, fear, embarrassment and grief.
I get so heated in it that...
the summers hot and burning me with self pitty.
It has been a hard thing to be so bright and not to have a recall or ability at times to pull up those things I want out of this little ol data bank. Then I do yes get to feeling sorry for myself, frustrated with the remnants of whats left of who I am.

There in come the assault!
The weapons formed against me. Forgetting what is before me pressing on into it without the memory of what I know in HIM just splays me open.
And I will tell you that is very frustrating and I am guilty I think of turning my face away from Him a bit and just trying to cope through it.

Coping alone is survival and I think I have been in that former old familiar survival mode here for a while sorry if you stepped in it and I hope ya all can wipe it off your shoe
:)


This morning I awoke to a clean kitchen
I walked away last night to tend to driving that little kid home.
Spending time with each of my own on my arrival home and just living guilt free.

Guilt free with gratitude I received the help I really needed.
My husband did the dishes.
We worked on the counters together before I had left.I was able to walk into the kitchen after my 2 hour work out in the garden.
I walked into this.
I received this without feeling guilty for the help...without feeling embittered because I needed it...without feeling like an imposition to my lovin husband...or a bad Proverbs 31 woman to see the My man at the sink working.
Funny guy he said this morning joking with me
" Now don't mess up my clean kitchen"
To which I replied
"So just how then are we gunna come up with anything to eat?"
With a rye smile we both gave a little chuckle

We walked out one end and I the other to go out to tend to the earth.
We bidding each other a good day and a hug.

Well here is where I left off this morning.
The beds are made and it is nearing time to seed.
There is yes earth to move and the soil amended.

Alright then thankful for summer.
The uniform of summer in the garden.
Now I drank a good 16 oz of water and that yellow bandanna recycled it all.Ha
The earth has been moved and the lumps clumps and bumps turned into a nice soil. It is being filled each day a bit. Just got to hot and tired by 8:30 to go any further and it was time to tend the children.

The girls said thanks and that Ruby is glad to be home.
No eggs yet...these little bantie chickens are wanting some greens.
We were diligent to wait the week out. Spent nothing all week as to keep true to task on the budget. I am so looking forward to some greens myself.

It is good that in the midst of the heat we can find a shade.
Like the chickens enduring the heat till they all but go lame.

I too am grateful that under the heat of the molten that the dross is rising up out of me to get skimmed of a bit more.
Summers time is a time of intensity that is often needed to get us ready for the fall. The soil had to get all dug up cleaned and ready. Soon to have amendments that restore it to it's full potential.

So I suppose the fall is coming in several weeks.
By summers end on my face I fall humbled and thankful to see that even I who have known Him so intimately can be tipped over to let that dross dribble off me caught with me sweat cloth to wipe it away from my brow.

good evening.

Good evening
My sister called today she is back East spending some time with her grand baby.
She was telling me that she was a bit concerned I am working too hard.

She really gave me a belly laugh with this line....

"It illegal in most states to work people as hard as your working....."

Funny thing is she is dead serious.

oh I just laughed so hard.
She caught me at a moment when Dove who had her arms literally extended caught her "wing" on my glass of clear soda...Oh what a MESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! all over the counter clothe, the face of the cabinet and the shelves inside those cabinets and the towels on the shelves in the cabinet and the floor and the drawer and the 50+ icing bags hanging on the inside of the door...I thought ............errrrrrrrrrrrrr double arg!!!!!!!!!!
My sister said "I'd be angry ! don't apologize..."
I always feel bad about getting angry like I should not get mad , hold it in and think I need to be better than that, than to get angry. Part of that promise to be different than it was for me as a kid. I think trying to keep that promise really stresses me out!
:)

Hay my Mister is getting better! each day.

He went by to see that job. It actually could turn into several little jobs over time. That could just be the thing to help us.
Over time was hinted of at his work today.
I'd miss him, it would be great for school clothes.

Hay you intercessors join me will ya...
little girl went home tonight (she was here all day)
Her mom had to tell her about a suicide a friend of the family.
The mans dad just had a malignant brain tumor removed and is ready to be released in a day or so. Now they have to tell the man his son killed himself.
The little girl...well there are is a lot of stress apartment lease is up and they are out in a few days...Little bit is having a bad tummy...Join me will you...
thank you.

Ruby went to be with her sisters

Sweet Ruby girl revived and stood this early morning by noon she was walking and had eaten her food.
I sent her out to join her sisters in the coop.
This early a.m. Mr U. and I moved the coop up on to the patio and set some pine shavings down for them.They are all active. Looking better molting yet not that there is much left to molt. Still a little concerned over them.

Now I neglected to say yesterday that we got a call on Sunday.
Mr U.'s brother called he has a fellow who needs my guys skills to do a job for him.
My darling went over there last night.
Took the camera and has it today too.
:(>
the job is a lot of work for a little
Then perhaps it will be less work for the second one.
Work is work, that same day we had asked God for a little part time work to pad up the budget.

God is Good every day!
Remember to ask!

Thank you for all your prayers.

We have a batch of muffins baked, a loaf of bread, whole chicken in the hot oven it is now going 1:00 p.m. power down. With the chicken finishing up in the hot oven turned off. If you do this make sure that is is all but cooked through just to use it to tenderize. It has the apricot glaze on it and the potato's too.

I saved $100.!!!!!!!!!
last month on electric
Compared to the year before same month (it was even hotter this year) .
Time of use plan shut it down after 1 pm for us here. All oven and laundry,dishwasher and such work in the morn. Follow the sun...close East windows in the morn and West windows closed in the afternoon. Use light from the windows not the switch and hang the laundry on the line. If it is a softness issue remove from line when slightly moist...then pop in the dryer. If it got dry already just add a wet hand towel.

My keyboard is acting up over and over I'll bid you a good day.
Thanks for your kindness to Ruby.
(that was my mothers name)