Friday, May 2, 2008

One giant step toward independence

This morning the children asked to make one giant step toward independence.
This being the third day of desire , but failed follow through I again told them ...
" when they are ready"...
They felt safe.
For those of you who know attachment disorders you will understand this
HUGE milestone.

I went in the house rejoicing and praising God for the healing in my children!
This morning they were ready and boarded the bus for the first time!
I went to the school after school to make sure they were able to get on the right bus.
Then I hurried home and got the camera.
Here is the bus coming around the corner.


This was such a big step for such a small pair of legs:)
Yesterday we followed the bus to the school but today...they got on right out in the driveway!
The way home was a new adventure.

The doors opened and two very self confident, happy children who gained two inches of self esteem climbed down those big steps.
Asking if Monday they can walk home alone. Sure I told them I said go ahead now and walk home I'll meet you there.

Oh the self satisfaction courage won and a good experience mastered!
Miss Paula (the driver) asked them if they liked their bus ride and they both said "yes we did" Miss Paula asked my name and gave me guidance.
The kids need to walk a 1/4 block to the corner on Monday Morning.

I lagged back and let them go to the house on their own.
How sweet!
Parenting success is...
when we see them gain that ability to be independent with confidence.

5 comments:

Jane Doe said...

What a huge accomplishment. Wow. Love the picture of the bus heading around the corner.

:)

~Bren~ said...

Congratulations!! I think this was as big a milestone for you as for them. To let go enough for them to be independent was a huge milestone as a parent...especially with an attachment issue involved!! WOOHOO to all of you!!!!
((((HUGS))))

Amrita said...

Praiseing God with ya.this is so wonderful.

Corey~living and loving said...

woo hoo....that is wonderful. I am so happy for you all. :)

Denise said...

Congrats my friend, love you.

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